SYNASTRY MARS IN ASPECT TO PLUTO
These two powerful planets know what they want and are not afraid to go after it. When the urges are mutual this can be one of the most "intense sexual aspects" found in synastry.
The square and the opposition although cause tremendous sexual attraction, if the competitive, or antagonistic side take place, then things can end bad, as with all hard Pluto aspects the two individuals need to be mature to handle its energy.
On one hand, this aspect often shows up between two strong headed individuals, that are set in doing things there way, or one tries to control the other and this is how things can go south. If this is the case, you can expect power struggles, drama and in the worse case, violence.
The attraction although very strong initially can be broken down over time, if you choose to compete and push each other, rather than work as a team.
Pluto and Mars are two very powerful and aggressive planets, Mars more directly and Pluto more subtly at times and explosive at others. You will need to watch for a competitiveness or a need to stir one another, or push each others buttons and end up antagonizing each other, or a love relationship can very well turn into a battlefield, the damage done is often irreparable.
Both individuals tend to have strong desires, and they respect each other's internal strength, but at the same time, can be jealous of each other, competitive or just not willing to make the necessary concessions it takes to have a mutually satisfying relationship. One may have to be right all the time, or may try to dominate or even control the other.
The couple must avoid using any of these tactics. There is a fine line between love and hate so they say, and this is one can go either way. When one person pushes and the other doesn't give in, a battle of wills is likely. Ideally with this aspect you want to have other, softer helpful aspects to smooth the energy.
If there are other harmonious aspects (especially with Venus Moon, or Venus Sun) and both parties are mature enough to realize that there is no room for competition in a "love relationship" and choose instead, to direct the intense energy towards mutual goals and sexual satisfaction. Then this aspect can keep the sex life, hot for a very long time.
This aspect is considered to be a sign of possible violence or abuse. However, it most certainly is not always so. You do need to take both of the individual charts into consideration to check for any signs of violence in either one natally. If both people are not violent to begin with, then this will not likely be the case.
If the attraction is mutual and both people are mature and not violent people, well then this aspect adds tremendous sexual attraction, but you do need to exercise caution, You do need to watch for being too aggressive with one another, because the intensity is usually very strong and you can inadvertently end up hurting each other, not in a violent but more of a bite mark way.
In it's positive there are few other aspects like this that can drive the primal sexual urges "over the top" like this one. This is the purest form of "animalistic sexual energy".
Although, this aspect alone is not enough to keep two people together in a loving relationship, it WILL be a factor in people that stay together in a strictly "sexual one".
In a long term relationship this aspect is an indication that the sex will intense and perhaps overly zealous, just be cautious, and try not to dive to deep into the moment.
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