Although this aspect brings about strong sexual attraction, it needs to be managed with the utmost delicacy or it most certainly can burn two people out to where it ends terribly. It does not need to be this way especially if both people involved are mature and learn that stubbornness and willfulness will destroy a relationship fast and permanently.
The problem is these are two powerful planets and they know what they want and how they want it and usually aren't willing to compromise. They end up antagonizing each other and building resentments that in some cases can end up violent. This is why caution must be applied.
However, when managed appropriately this aspect can be one of the most potent sexual and passionate aspects around.
There seems to be an underlining competition between the two or a great deal of pride. On one hand, this aspect often shows up between two strong-headed individuals, that tend to disagree on practically everything, one wants to do one thing and the other wants to do something else. This can be a very challenging aspect to overcome, but it is not impossible. Flexibility and appreciation for your differences instead of trying to control or change one another would be one way to make it work without the unnecessary over-the-top drama.
The attraction although very strong initially can be broken down over time, if you choose to compete and push each other, rather than work as a team.
Pluto and Mars are two very powerful and aggressive planets- Mars, more directly and Pluto subtly, at times and explosive at others.
If handled wisely and with awareness this aspect can be great for stimulating one another and accomplishing pretty much any goal you set for yourselves.
Both individuals tend to have strong desires and are not willing to compromise but at the same time, they can be jealous of each other, competitive, or pushy. It is also seen that one may have to be right all the time or tries to control or dominate the other.
When one pushes and the other doesn't give in, a battle of wills begins leading to what is known as "intense drama". Ideally with this aspect it is best if you have some other softer aspects to take the edge off, and a good amount of compatibility otherwise.
Just realize that stubbornness, willfulness, competition or always having to be right do not work in love, instead choose to direct the intense energy into mutual goals and sexual satisfaction. If you do this then this aspect can keep the sex life, hot, heavy and busy for a very long time.
This aspect is considered to be a sign of possible violence or abuse. However, it most certainly is not always so. You do need to take both of the individual charts into consideration to check for any signs of violence in either one natally.
If both people are not violent to begin with, then this will not likely be the case.
If the attraction is mutual and both people are mature then this aspect adds a tremendous sexual attraction, but you do need to exercise caution and watch for being too aggressive with one another. Because of the strong urges and the sexual intensity you need to exercise caution because you can easily inadvertently end up hurting each other.
In it's positive there are few other aspects like this that can drive the primal sexual urges right over the top like this one.
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