SYNASTRY MARS IN ASPECT TO PLUTO
These powerful planets know what they want and are not afraid to get it. When it's mutual this can be one of the most intense sexual aspects found in synastry. The square and the opposition cause tremendous sexual drive, however, there is also a competitive side that can destroy the relationship entirely if both parties are not careful. Both individuals tend to have strong desires, and they respect each other's internal strength, but at the same time, can be jealous of each other, or just not willing to make the necessary concessions it takes to have a mutually satisfying relationship. In some cases there is aggression, domination or manipulation involved. The couple must avoid using any of these tactics. There is a fine line between love and hate so they say, and this one can go either way. When one person pushes and the other doesn't give in, there can be a battle of wills. Ideally there are other aspects involved to down play the intensity this position draws out. If other aspects allow and both parties are mature enough to realize that there is no room for competition in a love relationship and instead direct the energy towards mutual goals and sexual satisfaction, then this can keep it hot for a long time. You also need to look at aspect in the individual charts of the people involved to see if they have control issues or issues of dominance on there own, to better understand if this is a possibility.
The sexual compulsions this aspect ignites can be very difficult to control, this is because the "sexual chemistry" is intense! and the urging and drives to touch and be close to one another is absolutely uncontrollable. There are few other aspects like this that can drive the primal sexual urges "over the top" like this one. This is the purest form of "animalistic sexual energy".
On the negative or less evolved couples
Mars/Pluto hard aspects have been known to be dangerous, aggressive and even abusive, in love relationships. This is because, individually these two planets are about winning. If your relationship is not built on ego, then this will not manifest as competitive energy but rather, sexual. Violence usually is not the case if both individuals are not violent people to begin with, and this will be seen in the individual charts of the people. Violence is rarely the case between two non-violent people. However, it truly shows two people that are strong in their opinions and the way they want things. You must not turn your love relationship into a battle -field by competing. Instead, be supportive of each others strengths.
On the positive side!
You do need to exercise caution with this aspect since it can feel as if you can't get physically close enough. You may end up being too aggressive with each other and not in a purposeful way but more in a "bite mark" way.
This is the "Sexual Fusion Aspect" addictive sexual intensity. Mars = raw sexual energy (primal) and Pluto = intense experience sex. When they make aspect you are about to enter a "sexual inferno"! The trine or sextile is much easier to handle since there is a more of a appreciation for each other and less competition than the friction of the square, however, not any less potent.
This truly is one of those sultry,feverish, smoking hot sex aspects, once they attach they have great difficulty letting go. Although, this aspect alone is not enough to keep two people together in a loving relationship, it WILL be a factor in people that stay together in a strictly "sexual one"! You don't need to "get along" but you will want to "get it on". Even if the relationship ends, it may not come to a complete hault.
In a long term relationship this aspect is an indication that the sex will never loose it's fizz. Many couples that have this aspect, often fall back into sex even if their relationship has been long over. The sexual passion stays at the same intensity and never seems to burn out. This aspect helps keep the sexual fire in long term relationships, where some will say- their sex life has died down, this is rarely the case with Mars Pluto. Expect extreme fireworks of all kinds!
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