SYNASTRY MARS IN ASPECT TO PLUTO
These two powerful planets know what they want and are not afraid to go after it. When the urges are mutual this can be one of the most "intense sexual aspects" found in synastry.
The square and the opposition although cause tremendous sexual attraction there are also two sides to this coin.
On one hand this aspect often shows up between two strong headed individuals, which can lead to power struggles over a period of time. Although this is part of the attraction you both find one another's strength very appealing. This is usually what brought the two of you together and if not handled wisely, what you once loved about one another can be what breaks you up at a later time. If both people are not mindful of the intensity and willfulness this aspect ignites then they may face many of the potential negative sides to this aspect. The attraction although very strong initially can be broken down over time, if you choose to compete and push each other, rather than handle things in the bedroom.
Pluto and Mars are two very powerful aggressive planets, Mars more directly and Pluto more passive aggressively, at least initially. You will need to watch for a competitiveness or a need to stir one another, or push each others buttons for this is the main reason why this aspect can get ugly.
Both individuals tend to have strong desires, and they respect each other's internal strength, but at the same time, can be jealous of each other, or just not willing to make the necessary concessions it takes to have a mutually satisfying relationship. There may be a certain amount of stubbornness or a unwillingness to give in when problems occur. In some cases because of this there can be aggression, manipulation and if not kept in check in worst case scenario violence although not commonly the case.
The couple must avoid using any of these tactics. There is a fine line between love and hate so they say, and this is one can go either way. When one person pushes and the other doesn't give in, there can be a battle of wills. Ideally there are other aspects involved to down play the intensity this position draws out.
If there are other harmonious aspects (especially with Venus Moon, or Venus Sun) and both parties are mature enough to realize that there is no room for competition in a "love relationship". If they choose instead to direct the intense energy towards mutual goals and sexual satisfaction, then this aspect can keep it hot for a very long time.
To see if there is a tendancy to violence, the individual charts would need to be assessed, for any aspects that point to aggression or possible abuse in their own chart, might take form in the relationship or can be triggered by the relationship. (See: Pluto Relationships for more)
Nonetheless, The sexual compulsions this aspect ignites can be very difficult to control, this is because the "sexual chemistry" is usually very intense. There are few other aspects like this that can drive the primal sexual urges "over the top" like this one. This is the purest form of "animalistic sexual energy".
In the Negative
Mars/Pluto hard aspects have been known to be dangerous, aggressive and even abusive, in love relationships. This is because, individually these two planets are about winning.
However, this is only if there are signs in the individual charts that show them being prone to violence, as earlier stated. Violence is rarely the case between two non-violent people.
Primarily, it truly shows two people that are strong in their opinions and the way they want things which is respectable and admirable. No need to win, just be supportive.
You must not turn your love relationship turn into a battlefield by competing, not if you want it to last anyway. Instead, be supportive of each others strengths.
More importantly, If your relationship is not built on ego, then this will not manifest as competitive energy but rather a strong sexual one.
If the two of you are mature or evolved
Well then you are in luck! Although you still need to exercise caution with this aspect simply because you won't be able to get enough of each other, and will want to constantly be physically close to each other, and may end up being too aggressive with one another, not in a intentional way but a pure " I gotta have you now" and leaving bit marks way.
This is the "Sexual Fusion Aspect" addictive sexual intensity. Mars = raw sexual energy (primal) and Pluto = intense experience sex. When they make aspect you are about to enter a "sexual inferno"! The trine or sextile is much easier to handle since there is a more of a appreciation for each other and less competition than the friction of the square, however, not any less potent. The trine and the sextile get the positive side of the aspect and can accomplish much together as a couple.
This truly is one of those sultry,feverish, smoking hot sex aspects, once they attach they have great difficulty letting go. Although, this aspect alone is not enough to keep two people together in a loving relationship, it WILL be a factor in people that stay together in a strictly "sexual one". You don't need to "get along" but you will want to "get it on". Even if the relationship ends, it may not come to a complete halt, there may be some on again off again.
In a long term relationship this aspect is an indication that the sex will never loose its fizz.
Many couples that have this aspect, often fall back into sex even if their relationship has been long over. The sexual passion stays at the same intensity and never seems to burn out. This aspect helps keep the sexual fire in long term relationships, where some will say- their sex life has died down, this is rarely the case with Mars Pluto. Expect extreme fireworks of all kinds!
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