Wednesday, May 30, 2012

SYNASTRY- MARS IN ASPECT PLUTO


SYNASTRY MARS IN ASPECT TO PLUTO

These powerful planets know what they want and are not afraid to get it. When it's mutual this can be one of the most intense sexual aspects found in synastry. The square and the opposition cause tremendous sexual drive, however, there is also a competitive side that can destroy the relationship entirely if both parties are not careful. Both individuals tend to have strong desires, and they respect each other's internal strength, but at the same time, can be jealous of each other, or just not willing to make the necessary concessions it takes to have a mutually satisfying relationship. In some cases there is aggression, domination or manipulation involved. The couple must avoid using any of these tactics. There is a fine line between love and hate so they say, and this one can go either way. When one person pushes and the other doesn't give in, there can be a battle of wills. Ideally there are other aspects involved to down play the intensity this position draws out. If other aspects allow and both parties are mature enough to realize that there is no room for competition in a love relationship and instead direct the energy towards mutual goals and sexual satisfaction, then this can keep it hot for a long time. You also need to look at aspect in the individual charts of the people involved to see if they have control issues or issues of dominance on there own, to better understand if this is a possibility. 

 The sexual compulsions this aspect ignites can be very  difficult to control, this is because the "sexual chemistry" is  intense! and the urging and drives to touch and be close to one another is absolutely uncontrollable. There are few other aspects like this that can drive the primal sexual urges "over the top" like this one. This is the purest form of "animalistic sexual energy". 

On the negative or less evolved couples

Mars/Pluto hard aspects have been known to be dangerous, aggressive and even abusive, in love relationships. This is because, individually these two planets are about winning. If your relationship is not built on ego, then this will not manifest as competitive energy but rather, sexual. Violence usually is not the case if both individuals are not violent people to begin with, and this will be seen in the individual charts of the people. Violence is rarely the case between two non-violent people.  However, it truly shows two people that are strong in their opinions and the way they want things. You must not turn your love relationship into a battle -field by competing. Instead, be supportive of each others strengths.

On the positive side!

You do need to exercise caution with this aspect since it can feel as if you can't get physically close enough. You may end up being too aggressive with each other and not in a purposeful way but more in a "bite mark" way.
This is the "Sexual Fusion Aspect" addictive sexual intensity. Mars = raw sexual energy (primal) and Pluto = intense experience sex. When they make aspect you are about to enter a "sexual inferno"! The trine or sextile is much easier to handle since there is a more of a appreciation for each other and less competition than the friction of the square, however, not any less potent.

This truly is one of those sultry,feverish, smoking hot sex aspects, once they attach they have great difficulty letting go. Although, this aspect alone is not enough to keep two people together in a loving relationship,  it WILL be a factor in people that stay together in a strictly "sexual one"! You don't need to "get along" but you will want to "get it on". Even if the relationship ends, it may not come to a complete hault.

In a long term relationship this aspect is an indication that the sex will never loose it's fizz. Many couples that have this aspect, often fall back into sex even if their relationship has been long over. The sexual passion stays at the same intensity and never seems to burn out. This aspect helps keep the sexual fire in long term relationships, where some will say- their sex life has died down, this is rarely the case with Mars Pluto. Expect extreme fireworks of all kinds! 


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70 comments:

  1. Had this square or either conjunct with someone along with pluto trine venus and venus quintile pluto but it was with a man with mars conjunct uranus natal in the 1st,.. so obviously that was dangerous.

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  2. Would either person feel more? I mean, would the Mars feel the connection more because Pluto is generational? I ask because I have Mars in Aries which opposes a large group of people in the mid-Libra Pluto generation. I tend to find myself very sexually attracted to the men of that generation with whom I interact or see regularly, even when I don't like their personalities or I feel like they don't like mine. It's sort of an "I don't like him at all, but I desperately want him" kind of feeling.

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  3. Hi Bee! Thanks for visiting. I haven't seen it between two people that don't like each other to some degree first, but you may be onto something! This is pure passionate energy crossing paths, so.. Yes the generational thing exists, I have seen it myself and find that to be true for myself. I think both people feel it,but the Pluto person is a lot less obvious about it at first, although the Pluto person in what I have seen is the initial pursuer:)

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  4. If the synastry aspect was Pluto square Mars but the composite is Pluto trine Mars, how would that play out? Thanks!

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  5. Hi Anonymous! Thanks for stopping by! In synastry the energy is projected onto another, so you will both have this edgy burning attraction and over time is when the composite takes over and let me just say that the trine is no less potent than the square. With the square in synastry it shows a difference in how you express your attractions to each other, in the composite is how your energies change through your interaction with each other, it seems you both will express your sexual natures more alike over time. Very good aspect to have for longevity:)

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  6. I have Mars conjunct his pluto. I'm def have have a huge sexual attraction towards him, but nothing has happened yet. Wondering if his Pluto feels the same??

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  7. Yes, in my experience Pluto actually feels it stronger, but is not obvious about it, actually may hold back a bit on the onset.

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  8. Yes, he is def holding back. Trying to control myself as i don't want to be the first one to make the move. I hope he will soon ha!

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  9. haha! Control yourself Mars! Yeah right! What sign is your Mars in? Rest assured, Pluto feels it probably stronger..but remember Pluto is control, which they can cover quite well...until the right time and its on, then it becomes passion and perhaps obsession:) but it will be hot! Keep me updated, Will ya?

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  10. Haha, my mars is in Libra. His sun and moon also trine my mars! Is this good? Thanks, i will do :)

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  11. mmmm, Sun trine Mars.. very nice, Moon trine Mars...lovely:) This is very hot, I think I wrote on it.? If Not, I will! Sun trine Mars feels like Mars in the 1st house in synastry to me:) which is a very hot aspect. Whoa,! you are really feeling it! I can say; He is definitely "feeling" your Mars. Pluto wants Mars believe me, Mars is "Sexy" it goes for what it wants and is in your face, and quite direct about it. Pluto is NOT into the superficial. If you ask me these two were made for each other.:)

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  12. The most chemistry I've ever had is with this guy who has mars and pluto in scorpio conjunct my pluto. my mars (sag) is also 3 deg. conjunct his pluto(scorp). Is that a double whammy even though they're in different signs? It's hot, very, very hot. Physically, I couldn't ask for more. He's crazy, tender and very passionate, which really gets my scorp (ven, moon, sun, pluto, I know.) Emotionally, though, I can feel that secrecy and underhandedness could get in the way in the long run. I think honesty is definitely something needed with this aspect. Everything else though, is just fine ;)

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  13. Hi Arasam, Thanks for stopping by! Double whammy Mars Pluto? wow! Very hot! and Yes, honesty is very important and No game playing,when dealing with Pluto:0 Secrecy and underhanded tactics are a result of not being able to handle the intensity that this aspect generates and is often what breaks this bond, when it's what neither partner really wanted. Both Parties need to be secure in themselves, open and honest with each other and let things flow, to enjoy this aspect for what it truly was meant to be:)

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  14. Continue Arasam... Yes it is a double whammy, when both are in close conjunction to each other, both ways regardless of sign:)

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  15. This is such an interesting article! :) My boyfriend (of nearly 2 years) and I have composite Mars conjunct Pluto in the 7th house. We don't have any Mars-Pluto connection in synastry, but this Mars-Pluto conjunction in our composite chart makes it a lot less boring. I'm really glad you wrote about Mars-Pluto.

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  16. Hi Grace! Thanks for reading! Yes Thank you Mars Pluto for keeping things less boring!:) Even without the synastry, when you are together Sparks fly! Good for you!

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  17. What if a relationship chart shows my Pluto opposite his venus and mars and his Pluto sextile my sun and mars? Does the intensity balance out? There's also a Neptune trine venus (my nep/his ven

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  18. Hi Anonymous! Pluto Opposite Venus and Mars needs to be handled with care. It causes a great deal of sexual attraction and compulsion. It can go either way very fast if you don't pay attention. Pluto's all or nothing approach can tend to dominate and if this occurs it can breed anger and resentment. Since his planets are in easy aspect to yours it will more than likely be you, that needs to watch for controlling tendencies with him. The Neptune Venus will help add romance and a dreaminess to your affection with each other and will definitely soften out the Pluto. Neptune trine Venus is a very lovely aspect for romance:)

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  19. Thanks for response! So if I have the controlling issue, is he just turned on? Who would have the upper hand then? We also have Pluto conjunct. :) we both have mars trine Neptune both ways to go w/the venus trine. I see u wrote an article on moon trine venus and his moon trines mine almost exact 1.16 degree. I suppose that helps?

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  20. It may not be controlling, maybe jealousy, or more dominating? You will be the judge or what reactions he pulls out of your Pluto. Pluto takes on many forms in those realms, but you are the one with the power to transform him. Mars is pure passionate or sexual libido! but also, can also be aggressive, Mars in masculine he's not wimp:) but he goes about in a pure anima way, not calculating like Pluto can be. I personally love Neptune aspects especially the trine with Venus and Mars, beautiful, with mars it's like " You don't know where either one of you begin or ends" feels ethereal, love it! Moon trine Venus, a definite pleasure in emotional expression and it feels good to be with each other:)

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  21. Hey Mars in Libra here, with mars conjunct pluto and trine in sun and moon with this guy. Turned out that he is not interested in that way and we have gone our separate ways :( Ahhh :(

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  22. I'm sorry Mars libra,:( there are always other factors involved to either bring the attraction on initially or maintain it. You need to look at transit charts of both people and the composite to see if planets are making aspects to critical attraction areas, such as- the Vertex. This is a intense aspect when involved intimately,and not used in it's negative(manipulative/controlling) way, and both parties have initial physical attraction to each other. Don't worry, you will find the one for you:)

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  23. I have Mars square Pluto (he is Pluto) with a guy I'm in love with. Other aspects we have are Moon conj Mars (he's Mars), Mars sextile Jupiter (he's Mars), Moon square Neptune (he's Neptune smh), Mars square Uranus (I'm Uranus) & Venus conj. Venus And Mars (I'm Mars, both our Venus' are in Leo. To add to ALL of this......we both have Venus sq. Pluto natally...and of course in our composite chart. This asoect is the most potent between us...because it goes.both ways (his Venus square my Pluto is tighter tho). Those are the aspects I can remember off the top of my head. Because Pluto is generational (& most of the people I've loved are in my generation)...I've experienced the violent side of this aspect (esp since I have it in my natal chart). I've been in plenty of physical altercations w/ males of my generation smh (and I'm a girl....Pluto in 1st house...scorpio ascendant zero degrees w/ a 29° gemini Sun....yes I'm crazy lol)

    I have no idea how to handle this potential relationship. I don't want to b "mushy" and have the "talk" with him...but I feel it's needed.

    Sorry for the excessive description.

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  24. oooh! Alyssa that's some heavy synastry! I would think the Moon Square Neptune, (which i would be interested in hearing how that is playing out for you?) and Venus conjunct Venus and Mars would smooth things out:)? Pluto in the 1st Scorpio Ascendant altercations??? ha! Watch out for you! You are a tough cookie, and that's ok:) just turn it into physical passion rather than physical altercations,be safe:)

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  25. Oh and if you are in love with him as you say, You need to have the talk:) so go for it! mushy is sweet, it's ok:)

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    1. Lol the whole Moon square Neptune thing is NOT all roses. I've become.more realsitic about our situation since finding out about the Moon/Neptune square & how to handle it. I would project these ideals I had onto him, wanting him to talk to me..touch me...I'd share intimate details about myself with him...I was just fueld by the "connection" I thought we had. Now..my eyes are a bit more open. I realize that we're both young (I'm 22...he'll be 22 Sept. 18)..and we both have alot of growing to do. I'm afraid to communicate deep feelings bc we seem 2 misunderstand each other alot.

      The evasion is also a problem...and from my configurations you can see how prideful I am. He will ignore a text message like nobody's business! ItIt makes me angry...then I feel stupid for texting him n the 1st place..and I cry. Yes, cry. Then he'll text me about 2 days later and we'll meet up..and I'm so happy 2 b around him that I can't even BE angry.

      It's disgusting smh.

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  26. awe.. Alyssa, this is Not good. I can understand being prideful believe me! I also have a Scorpio Ascendant and Pluto is in trine to sun, merc, venus and mars. I was oh so stubborn and not gonna show weakness or neediness for the life of me..! well I am older than you, and I have learned it's better to know than waste my time. So now I just throw it out there! If they don't reciprocate it's their loss. The key is to NOT accept rude behavior (no response to text) they will just continue to do this and you can end up in a dead end situation for years. You deserve to be loved, you need to demand it. If they don't give it to you, you need to respect yourself and drop it. You will WIN by not giving in, (bring him to his knees), by not responding to him. It works but you have to be strong, it empowers you! Feels good! and puts you back in control of your love destiny. The first step to getting what you want, it to not accept behavior that you don't want. Neptune Moon can be beautiful, and it can be deceitful, it really can go either way and ultimately depends on what type of person your dealing with. You are a strong young lady,based on your configuration, you can do this:)

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  27. Thank you for your responses! :)

    Since finding out about the specifics of the configuration I've become more realistic about things. He's young...not as emotionally mature...and I can't force anything. However that unconditional love thing is still there. I used to pray for him and his family every night (still do from time 2 time)...and I just want to see him happy, even if it's not with me (which will hurt like hell). That "unconditional love" thing is something I hope he can feel...because I'll never ever say it (Moon conj. Saturn - I'm Saturn). I've come to the conclusion that I will no longer communicate w/ him. Maybe we can try to have a relationship latrr on in our lives...when we're both more mature (Venus in Leo I've read has to end up doing that).

    I could rant & rave about this all day lol! Astrology has recently (within the past 2 yrs) become extremely intersting to me...almost obsessive!

    Thank you 4 listening!! :-)

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  28. Awe, Your Welcome! Please! We all love astrology here right!? Well, it sounds like you have a great head on your shoulders, and your knowledge of astrology is helping you understand yourself, and other's. Don't you love it? We will all become better people because of our awareness, and our relationships much better:) unconditional love is something to marvel at,it's beautiful. It's real:)

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  29. I'm also curious what Neptune is doing in your own chart if anything?

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  30. I have Moon sq Neptune in my natal as well smh. The whole "divine discontent" scenario has played out again and again in my love life. I'm learning to take responsibility for my emotions...and to STOP letting my sometimes (extremely) unrealistic expectations ruin the present & future. I also have this deal where I want to be close to someone..but also want to be left alone (complex right?). I have quirks...but not as much as he does (Virgo Sun, Cappy moon, Sagittarius Asc.).
    He doesn't have any aspects Btw his Moon and Neptune (both in Cap. but I don't think they're conjunct).

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  31. And I agree with how useful asyrology can be..how it can sometimes uncannily explain occurrences in real life.

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  32. ah, moon neptune... that explains your unconditional love scenario. I just knew you were gonna say that;).You are very aware, tho and that's gonna save you:) because Capricorn Moon's IMO take a long time to grow up and grow comfortable,and are not very sensitive can be cold. If his Moon was touched by Neptune or Venus that would help but...Virgo Cap Sag? Your poor Neptune moon! He's gonna need to grow up, those are "way late bloomer astro signs"..sigh!

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  33. I know smh..I'm not going to put my life on hold...but if we cross paths later on in life & we're both free..I'd be more than willing if he is lol!

    It's so funny how no one welder has ever had such a hold over me! I guess it's also because his Venus is conjunct my Sun/Moon midpoint as well.

    But thank you SO much for your feedback!!!!!! :)

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  34. I've expd both + and - with a synastric mars sq pluto w/ my now ex. Totally transformational sex but we could easily be pugilists w/eachother, mainly verbally altho phys abuse coming from him was what I call subtle....but not negligible at all same time. Neither of us seek power or control or did, only we pushed the major buttons on eachother and as he told me, I brought out the Best in him but also the WORST.

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  35. Hi Elyssa! ohhhh yes, what you say is true, that is a common theme with 8th house/Pluto/Scorpio energy..it's compulsive and it really helps to have a few really nice smooth aspects in conjunction to this one...because yeah? why all the button pushing! Jeez.. that's the competitive thing..Yikes! Thanks for your feedback:)

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  36. Hi, I hope someone can answer this for me. I have pluto oppose mars/venus with someone with pluto conjunct NN. We don't have many venus aspects but a lot of neptune and uranus ones. We have some nice aspects moon trine moon, sun sextile moon but the more harsher aspects scare me. Would this be an abusive/quick relationship? It sounds like there is a lot of illusion

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  37. Hi,
    My name is Zack and i would like to show you a synastry chart:

    http://postimg.org/image/anpm3bblf/

    shes the inner im the outer planets...it would be amazing if you could say some words about this. im in painful uncertainty because i feel she can be my wife or something but there are downsides too....please help me.

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  38. Hi Zach, Thanks for visiting. You need to order a reading to have a analysis of a chart. Here i just comment on particular aspects. You can order a mini reading that would tell you all you need to know and more. Thank you:)

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  39. Hi Canadian girl! thanks for your question anyone else can feel free to chime in. As for me there are so many factors in a synastry chart that can negate the negatives or enhance them. Each couple's synastry is different. Although we can say how a particular aspect generally plays out, there is just so much more involved. Pluto opposite Venus and Mars is generally considered a strong attraction factor but also very competitive which often causes problems with control or competition. Neptune can soften or confuse things, and Pluto with the north node is a very powerful draw to each other, but there are just so many other factors to be sure of how it would ultimately play out. :)

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  40. Hi, thanks for responding. I'm very new to astrology and am just trying to figure this out. I was mistaken, it wasn't pluto but mars,mercury and uranus which hit the NN.

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  41. Hi Canadiangirl- Glad to hear you are learning astrology:)There are many factors depending on what these aspects are will tell you. You need to get a synastry reading to truly understand the dynamics. With that said, Aspects to the nodes in synastry are very tight connections often found in married couples and soul mates. You can go to search my blog on the right and type in nodes to read my posts on the subject to get a better understanding, or copy and paste these links:)
    http://illumeastrology.blogspot.com/2011/05/synastry-north-and-south-node.html
    and:
    http://illumeastrology.blogspot.com/2012/05/synastry-venus-conjunct-north-node-you.html

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  42. I see. so what you think about my mars opposite her pluto? my mars also conjuct her south node

    thanks, Zack

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  43. Wow, synastry/composite charts are very complicated. My understanding is slowly starting to come around. Is it true that connections to N node is also found on South Node? I've read conflicting stories about the importance of neptune to NN. Is it important or too far out to count?

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  44. Hi Zach, Pluto and Mars are such powerful forces that in synastry if they are in hard aspect it's best to have at least a few other softer aspects such as Venus Sun or Venus Moon to offset the possible competitive side that is possible. The opposition or the square from ones mars to another's pluto causes a extreme sexual attraction. This attraction is deeply passionate but can also be somewhat competitive if not handled appropriately. Pluto usually tries to change Mars or atleast doesnt let Mars take the wheel and Mars won't have Pluto take it either.
    All in all= they really admire each others strength and maybe want to mirror each other or even perhaps be like each other. Strong sexual attractions and perhaps some control issues. You need to not push each other, or compete instead use only the passion that this aspect ignites. You're Mars conjunct her South-node is a past life tie and connection, to figure out what past life connection it is, you need to check out areas that Mars represents- along with the house and sign the conjunction is In, for tips:)

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  45. Canadian girl: Yes, if it is a conjunction to the north node it would be in opposition to the south node. If it is opposite the North node it would then be conjunct the south node:)

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  46. thanks for your insights :) My conjuncted Venus-Neptune conjunct her Moon on my descendant, so it quite eases the pluto-mars tension I guess :)
    The SN-Mars conjunction is in the 8th house in Taurus. Maybe I killed her for money ? :(

    regards, Zack

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  47. Yikes! Zach!-hahaha!, it does not always mean you did something or her. It could be and was probably more than likely outside forces that may have had something to do with the ending. However, these things would need to be analyzed quite heavily to come up with potential scenarios. However, you do have the idea of how to come up to with possibilities:0. Nice to have you here:)

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  48. haha thanks! I'm just trying to put the pieces together. I've become quite interested in synastry lately. Very exciting. What do you think about the orb between a woman's moon and a man's sun? Some say it can be up to 15 degrees.

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  49. Hi Zakarias, Very cool glad your loving astrology:) As far as Orbs I believe it's up to the individuals. Most astrologers agree it should be a close orb of maybe up to 5 degrees. I have never heard of 15. I personally say from my experience up to 5 has been felt for me and this includes transiting planets. I felt Saturn's opposition up until 5 degrees on my Mars and then it was like instant relief. Most cases the maximum i have seen felt with most clients and other's were at the most 5 degrees. However it you are feeling it at a further degree then that who am I to say you don't:)

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  50. So I am curious...

    I have been studying the synastry aspects of myself and a woman I am curious about. I think I am pretty much Plutonian:

    8th house stellium in Aries with Sun, Jupiter, Moon and NN
    Pluto in Scorpio in the 3rd involved in 7 yods
    Pluto is the apex of a Spearhead and one of the planets in a Grand Trine
    Pluto heavily aspected

    I'm curious about your take on the flavor of this situation:

    my Pluto (Scorp) opposes her Venus (Taurus)
    Her Pluto (Scorp.) opposes my Mars (Taurus)
    Our Mars' square each other (Mine = Taurus; Hers = Leo)
    My Pluto sits in her 8th House
    Her Saturn (Pisces) conjoins my Venus and trines my Pluto
    Her moon (Pisces) conjoins my Venus and trines my Pluto, and falls in my 7th
    My ascendant falls in her 7th
    My Venus falls in her 1st
    My Neptune (Cap.) trines her Venus (Taurus)
    Her Neptune (Cap.) trines my Mars (Taurus)
    Our Mercuries trine each other (Mine = Pisces, Hers = Cancer)
    Her sun (Gemini) opposes my Saturn (Sag.)

    When I first met her I got the feeling that someone was penetrating me with their eyes all day long. I could literallly feel her that intensely and whenever I am around her, even if she is not looking, I know she is looking. Hell, even when I am not around her, I feel her. I don't even 'know' her. She was the first to contact me, but she keeps it incredibly surface (Gemini) and it frustrates me (impatient Aries) because what I feel with her is anything but surface. I have been obsessing over her, but i definitely do that Plutonian thing where I withdraw as a tactic. I have been attempting to stop responding to her uninspiring messages and yet I can't. She has a boyfriend whom she hints at being on the verge of breaking up with, information that she, for some reason, felt the need to volunteer within days of us meeting. Yet, at the same time, she talks about this guy as if he is her perfect man, then later talks about another guy that she is attracted to, and I get this weird feeling that she is playing a game with me. I am in an open relationship, so I am just curious about this woman. She feels...necessary, familiar. My urge is anything but platonic towards her and I struggle with being too 'friendly' in the way I talk to her. And she keeps popping up in my dreams...naked.

    Also, we work together.
    Her Saturn in Pisces and Aquarius ascendant falls in my 6th house

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    1. Hi Subtle Flames:) You know studying astrology there is much to the situation. Sorry but It's impossible to tell without looking at the full picture. That would be both your individual charts to see how you are naturally predisposed to react, then the synastry, how you affect each other and then the composite what you create together. And although there are some great aspects there are many other things to take into account. Aspect by aspect show simple energy but only if there were no afflictions or aspects made to each of the planets listed. There are astrological love blockers to take into consideration and an array of other blockers that could hold back. To get the Aspects interpretations you can search my blog by aspect for interpretations. To see if a more than platonic possibility is likely or not then honestly, you need both of your individual charts and transits analyzed along with the composite transits and aspects. Which i would be happy to do by visiting my consultations page or Mini Love report page. For now: Please See: http://illumeastrology.blogspot.com/2013/11/beginner-astrologers-variables-of.html -to understand why you cant get big picture information or the details or outcome from Aspects and why the whole charts need to be analyzed. To give you a general-You have nice aspects along with some very difficult ones, which can counter balance, negate or enhance. Moon Venus is nice and will help some, it's not enough to counteract the Saturn Sun however. Sun Saturn opposition is a very difficult aspect to work with. It's hard to get off the ground because the Sun person feels suppressed in some form, or their normal self expression is suppressed. If you can get past that by being consciously aware of the impact you may have on her would be very beneficial. Like attracts like and two strong people usually will be attracted to each other, but when it comes to rubbing each other the wrong way or pushing buttons on each other- Very possible and you two will be prone to it with the Pluto Mars Opposition, Venus Mars opposition and Mars Square Mars. Moon trine Mercury will help and your Venus in her 1st says there is a attraction to you are on her behalf. Look for 12th house planets to explain the dreaming of her, and your ascendant falling in her 7th shows that you outwardly appear as her ideal. You have to get a reading so i can devote the time to analyze and find out more about the two of you as individuals:) Z

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  51. Hi i was involved with a man who I was obsessed with. Our synastry:

    His Descendant and Mars conj my Uranus, Neptune and Juno
    His Venus conj my moon and lilith
    His vertex conj my mars, saturn and pluto
    His Node conj my moon
    Dont know my time of birth so dont know about my planets position.
    But his 7th lands on my juno and his 8th and 9th both land on my moon.

    He left me to go back with his lady, i was heartbroken. I always wondered if he still obsessed with me or thinks of me because of our synastry. He must love his woman for not even looking for me after they went back together. Ours was all sex no love I think...at least on his side mostly. Your thoughts of this synastry would be great. Thank you

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    1. Hi, some synastry there eh! Venus conjunct Moon is one of the most lovely aspects to have however with the added Lilith adds a much deeper twist of sexual lure and sexuality, with the added bonus of losing your sanity. When Lilith is involved you risk loosing your sanity! There is a lot to synastry we would have to look at the individual charts of both people to see how the planets in the synastry are being affected. As far as a synastry these aspects are quite good given the individual charts and personalities of the individuals are fluid with it. To see what the lesson was, we would need to look to the nodes in the synastry what house they occupy along with the Nodes in the composite. Cant really say what the relationship was about without taking all charts into consideration because there is just too much to look at. Aspect by aspect will only divulge bits and pieces of how you affect each other in particular areas but some aspects are pushed to importance and others negated by other factors. Without your birth-time you won't be able to get all the details but if you have a analysis done on his natal chart it would tell you all you need to know about him and why things went the way they did. You can also try a Ascendant finder which is depicted based on certain questions which has had great success. If your interested to you can email me otherwise there are other astrologers that offer this also:) His moon conjunct your north node is a indication of something owed to you in the future or you helped him emotionally get closer to his north node. This meeting may have been karmic, there is just too much missing to get the full picture. I am sorry for the pain you suffered, heart breaks are the worst.

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  52. Hi thanks for the information in regards to the Mars Pluto aspect . I have read this again and again because it is such a beautiful read.

    Please could you help in regards to your opinion on this chart please.

    Birth times are unknown

    Do you think the Saturn square Saturn and mars square Saturn aspect is enough of a warning to not go forth into a relationship. This is because the orb value would be a lot stronger because of the smaller number.

    Will the Mars conjuction to Uranus and the Saturn conjuction to Uranus hinder us even more.

    I’m not sure if the trines are strong enough in terms of orb value to smooth out the other negative aspects.

    Especially the pluto-trine Mars aspects because the orb is 3 degrees and a lot bigger than the others so it may have a lesser impact.

    Thanks



    06/21/1984 Aspect 03/14/1977 Orb/Value
    Mercury Trine Mars 2.34 81
    Mars Square Saturn 1.06 -109
    Mars Conjunction Uranus 0.17 120
    Saturn Square Saturn 0.32 -104
    Saturn Conjunction Uranus 1.21 92
    Uranus Trine Saturn 0.09 63
    Pluto Trine Mars 3.40 35

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    1. Hi I am sorry for the delay..I somehow missed this or didn't see it til now..My apologies..Saturn Square Saturn is not a deal breaker but it's not easy, it really depends on how strong your relationship fortitude or 'desire for one' with each other is. This is because there will be forces out side of the both of you causing havoc on your relationship. This can take form many different ways but there are usually different blockers that pop up for the both of you. You will begin to feel like your relationship is constantly being tested and its more than likely is. You will need to face challenges together but this can make your relationship quite strong as well. You need to have a lot of other compatible factors to ease the discomfort of this aspect. Saturn square Mars indicates that both of you have different energy levels, when one want's to do something the other probably won't want to, or the Saturn person makes the Mars person feel like they need to sensor there behavior, which can lead to frustration. On the positive it can work if you both realize this tendency and avoid acting it out. It can also mean that the Saturn person makes the Mars person more aware of how they behave or act, which can be good if the Mars person needs to tone it down somewhat. The other aspects are quite good:)

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  53. My pluto in the 7th conjunct a man of my interest's Mars in scorpio.
    Pretty intense emailing and I haven't even met him yet!... Might be from my side since it's an infatuation. He is more plutonic than me. Sun 29.49 deg in libra, mars, mercury and pluto in scorpio

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    1. Hi Shinobi! The conjunction between Mars and Pluto is madly intense, especially from his Mars to your 7th Pluto.. Spicy! just wait til you meet.. You will know what I mean then:)
      I am interested which house his Mars in Scorpio is in?

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    2. Oooh :), I'm excited now. I don't know what house. My Mercury in the 12th house is still trying to plan how to ask him what time he was born without sounding weird... You know how those Mercury in Scorpio analyse everything. He might think I'm trying to steal his identity haha

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    3. Lol! ummm yes.. not far from the truth of what he might think! ha.. however, there are ways you get him to offer it up if he knows. I'm sure your 12th house mercury can (Neptune) create a possible scenario to where he would just tell you if he knew or a reason for him to find out:)) You can do it:)

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  54. Got it!. Honesty is the best policy. He's Mars is in the 1st house... Helloooo ;) I'm guessing he's gonna be oozing sex appeal from the first meet and he's a Libra ascendant, so the charm will also be there :). What are your insights Zahara.

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  55. Awesome! Mars in the 1st house is very masculine and Sexy. He will want to take the lead...and Libra Ascendant (Charm) blended with Aries traits ( Mars) Yummy! Ooozing Sex appeal? Absolutely! and with all the Scorpio? big time! Your Pluto on his Mars is a mutual intense sexual energy. The Mars in his 1st is actually going to help quite a bit, because Pluto tends to not go the direct route which can cause misinterpretations, that cause discordance for no real reason. Mars prefers to have it now by just asking directly! So you will know where you stand, and I doubt you guys will be able to keep your hands off of it other. His Mars in your 7th and Your Pluto in his 1st ( Partner and Self). The intensity is both ways with this one. Considering all other aspects are in good shape, I am very excited for you:)

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  56. Woohoo!, I feel like were girlies with hands held jumping up and down due to the revelation Zahara lol. Im so glad you said that about making decisions effectively due to his Mars in the 1st cos i'll admit it, I got scared when I knew he was a Libra with a Libra Ascendant. As an Aries with a Cap Moon, i'm very big on loyalty as he's mentioned he his but Libra's do flirt a lot and are easily influenced.
    Our chart isn't too bad but I want to have faith and see how it goes when we meet. Thanks a lot for your reply, won't take too much of your time :)

    God Bless x

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    1. haha! Yes, I hear ya girl..Libra has a hard time saying "no" and making solid decisions. They are the "partnership sign" here to teach us how to "get along", which usually requires compromise which is something they understand quite well.However, too much a people pleaser..not good either. Balance!! Sounds like he has a good balance. Mars in the 1st Aries (Self) with Partnership Asc. He will In my opinion be" whoohoo Man":) I'll also add that you being a Aries goes very well with his Mars in the 1st, you will both be similar in how you go about things, (same tempo) which feels awesome, you don't feel like your dragging the other. I just love Astrology! and to just throw that out there! Hey I am rooting for you girl! Let me know how it goes please?? I wish you true love ! happiness and many blessings on the way! X

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  57. I came across this blog - its like I was meant to read about mars and pluto to understand more of what's happening to me. PLEASE could I get some guidance on a very odd/obsessive relationship I'm experiencing - in particular an exact Mars-Pluto conjunction (his mars to my pluto). I've posted our profiles below. We also have an exact Venus-Saturn trine. Right now, it feels like I'm the only actually feeling anything powerful going on, frustrating and out of control for me.
    him - me
    Sun 02' 48' Cancer - Sun 27' 18' Cancer
    Moon 00' 24' Taurus - Moon 06' 39' Cancer
    Mercury 17' 20' Cancer- Mercury 22' 38' Leo
    Venus 22' 15' Cancer - Venus 16' 51' Cancer
    Mars 27' 48' Virgo - Mars 21' 23' Aquarius
    Jupiter 14' 28' Gemini - Jupiter 26' 37' Scorpio
    Saturn 17' 18' Pisces - Saturn 03' 35' Gemini
    Uranus 11' 17' Virgo - Uranus 09' 52' Libra
    Neptune 17' 30' Scorpio - Neptune 00' 23' Sagittarius
    Pluto 13' 55' Virgo - Pluto 27' 26' Virgo

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    1. Hi Ruby, I am happy you found me too:) Mars Pluto conjunction is the most binding sexual aspects that can lead to obsession. As with pretty much all Pluto aspects. However, Mars Pluto is sexual obsession, or a obsession with controlling. Your body rythems are in sync and it's pretty hard to get it out of your mind. As far as the aspects you listed it truly is impossible to say anything outside of how each of you instinctively respond to each other but it really doesnt tell us anything because the houses and the aspects are even more important than the signs alone. Unfortunately Darling, You need to get a reading and have both your charts analyzed along with the synastry and the composite to get any real information. Astrology is very complex there are many different factors involved. You need to know everything there is to know about both people their synastry and their composite to be able to make a intelligent assessment. And that my Dear takes a lot of time:) As far as the aspects for the most part your very compatible, although your Mars in Aquarius may be a little to out of this world for his down to earth fact based virgo. However, their both intellectual signs so i don't see it posing a problem. Again too much missing information! XO

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    2. I do not have his time of birth, and seeing as i'm trying not to give away the fact I'm obsessed, I cannot really ask! :) but I'll keep digging... I only once before experienced such an exact pluto aspect with someone, on that occasion it was his pluto exact to my venus. He was much older than me and it was platonic (and plutonic) hard to describe but just an incredibly intense relationship. now it seems I'm learning what its like to be the pluto person.. Thank you so much for your insights on the limited data I provided. Astrology is such a wonderful tool!! x

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    3. Lol! I totally understand that.. stay cool:) yikes. I had the Mars Pluto conjunction and I do contribute that aspect to produce amongst many other things, obsessive feelings.. Hopefully you stumble across his birth information so you can begin to maybe understand why your feeling this way, in a worthless attempt to control it.:) ha:)

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