Sunday, September 8, 2013

SYNASTRY: VENUS IN THE HOUSES



Venus the Goddess of love represents our love nature, our desires, our desire for the good things in life, our style, the way we act to attract, what we attract along with what we value and what we have or want. It rules creativity, beauty, diplomacy  the arts and is representative of our physical and tangible pleasures. In synastry, it's where we benefit our partners, with all these things.

Venus in your partner's 1st house


Whether you are lovers or friends, this placement of Venus suggests you both have a lot in common. You have a way of making your Partner feel attractive, and confident around you. The house person may feel like they have met their "ideal" this is assuming there is a mutual attraction.The attraction from the house person is likely to be quite intense. The Venus person will make the house person feel genuinely accepted and loved, perhaps showering physical pleasures on the house person, such as massages, fine fragrances, all things Venusian. The Venus person makes the house person look good by association which helps build their confidence. Looking good is very important to you as a couple. Because you have similar perspectives, personalities, and presentations, you both will feel like your two of a kind. Great position for attraction, confidence, and comrade.



Venus in your Partners 2nd house


The Venus person is likely to have personality traits and perhaps even a fashion sense that the house person will admire. The Venus person makes the house person feel invaluable and uniquely talented and in return, the house person shows the Venus person appreciation by way of offering gifts or things of value. The Venus person is very complimenting to the house person increasing the house persons'self-esteem. The house person may gain monetarily or discover new talents in which they can utilize to increase their monetary value, discover new sources of income or increase their personal belongings or things of value. The house person will appreciate the advice of Venus and if other aspects allow this is a good position for building a love/business relationship. In some cases, the house person almost feels entitled with the Venus person and may come across as so, and if Venus is inflicted in the individual's chart they may demand a lot from the Venus person. This is a positive placement for it's the house of Taurus and Venus. You will likely indulge in the finer things in life, or at least bring out the desire in each other.This will likely be a very creative relationship, where you both will want to put your creativity together to make money. The house person must be careful not to make the Venus person feel taken for granted or possessed. This is the house of I have" after all.



Venus in your Partners 3rd house


Venus in your partner's 3rd house is an indication of highly romantic or in the least mostly diplomatic communication between partners. You will respond to each other with grace and concern. In relationships communicating the most important part in a long-lasting one and this position allows you to work out your problems via communicating for the most part with a sensitivity and compassion for the way each other feels. This position can make you uncomfortable with verbal arguments and, therefore, you tend to gloss over any issues which are both good and bad. Depending of course on the nature of the problem. Arguing will probably rarely happen for the sake of keeping things sweet. Venus will appreciate the house person for their keen mind and the house person feels appreciated. Venus here is often seen in couples that write love letters or leave notes and cards around, for each other. You will enjoy your communications with each other, showing similar interests in cerebral matters and the Venus person will stimulate the mind of the house person which can make their conversations dynamic and interesting. You will enjoy talking with each other which is always a great thing!



Venus in your Partners 4th house


There may be many commonalities between the both of your families or early childhoods. You both may have family similarities in which you both can relate and this brings comfort, ease, and familiarity. This is a great placement for merging of families in situations such as long-term partnerships, deep friendships and love and marriage. Living together will be pleasant, and you will both enjoy having beautiful things of comfort in the home.




Venus in your partner's 5th house


When your Venus is in your partners 5th house your Venus is very happy here! I mean this is the house of fun, love, and romance, so why shouldn't she be? The house person will adore the Venus person, always wanting to show her a good time. Fun, Love, and romance will be the theme of your relationship. This is a very affectionate place for Venus that adds a child-like quality to your affection for each other. The Venus person may spark the house person's creativity and the house person will provide Venus with a place to express herself and perhaps discover talents of her own. This adds a light romantic playfulness to the interaction between the two of you. Holding hands and plenty of kissing and cuddling are a normal part of this position unless other aspects of the individual charts block the natural nature. Otherwise, this is an ideal position for love, romance, and children. You will want to play together. 

Venus in your partner's 6th house

The Venus person will help the house person find better and more efficient ways of doing things. Working together on the day to day activities, running errands, daily chores or working out together will be areas that bring the both of you pleasure doing together. The Venus person may take a concern in the house person's health and make suggestions on staying healthy. The Venus person will enjoy assisting the house person and taking care of them in these areas. Depending on the sign that Venus is in will tell us more about what types of areas the Venus person will make these improvements to the house person. The house person must be careful to not take advantage of the Venus person's kind efforts, to avoid any possible resentments. 



Venus in your partner's 7th


The Venus person is very supportive of the house person and likely makes them feel good! The house person sees the Venus person as their ideal mate if other attraction factors apply. Love and appreciation for one another are expressed with ease and you are both likely to be very supportive of each other's long-term goals. This is a true partnership house, which means partnerships of any kind. In a romantic relationship, You both feel better with each other. This is a genuine love and like of each other. The relationship should be based on equality and is highly beneficial for a long-term partnership if other aspects allow. Whether you are friends or lovers you will find that you both benefit from each other. Marriage is a likely feeling for the house person and if the feelings are mutual there is a strong possibility of getting married. Of course,  other factors must be considered. Generically this means that the house person may gain new partnerships and close associations through the Venus person which can help them. They will both take the relationship seriously. If this is a mutual love relationship then marriage is possible.

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Venus in your partner's 8th house

When your Venus is in your partner's 8th house intimacy is deep, and sharing comes easily and naturally. 
You will feel both emotionally and psychically bonded. Sex will be intense, passionate and emotionally fulfilling. 
There will be a mutual interest in taboo subjects, the occult, mysteries, sex, and secrets. 

You will discuss things with each other you might have difficulty with others. The house person will benefit monetarily and emotionally from the Venus person. You will share many secrets with one another that you dare not with others.
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Venus in your Partners 9th

The expansive quality of your love is a constant adventure. You both probably share a lot of the same interests, in areas of religion, beliefs, philosophy or travel. Honesty and truth are very important in your relationship. You will both enjoy searching for answers, researching conspiracies, or finding answers to life's big questions. You will grow exponentially through your relationship because you are always seeking new experiences. The Venus person will feel that the house person offers her a place to expand her experience, and will likely keep her interest for the long haul. You will both love to travel together.



Venus in your partner's 10th house


The house person is enamored with the Venus person and will find that the Venus person adds a bit of glamour to the relationship, the house person might like to be seen with the Venus person or they both appreciate the way in which others respond to them in public. The Venus person will offer advice that can be highly beneficial to the house person's career or may benefit them in some way. There may be a bit of idealization of each other within the relationship. You both make each other look good, so this relationship will likely be public. There is much respect for each other, and even admiration. 



Venus in your Partners 11th house


This is fabulous for a love relationship or friendship. The two of you get along famously. You will simply love hanging out, chatting and having fun together. You both have a lot in common and just simply like each other.  However, if this is a love relationship the house person might treat the Venus person like a buddy, or best friend which isn't a bad thing it can either lessen or increase the romance between the two. This depends on the level of comfort you both prefer and if this relationship is for the long run, then being best Friends is a good thing. It would help to have other more passionate aspects.

Venus in your Partners 12th house

The Venus person will be highly complimentative with the house person which will help increase their overall self-confidence. The house person will feel good with the Venus person and they will share a psychic connection that is quite powerful. It is possible that the house person may not trust the Venus person's motives. This might be valid, this is the house of secrets and hidden enemies in the negative and with Venus is could be ulterior motives. This usually indicates a secret relationship of some sort, or you tend to be private. If the Venus person has good intentions and is a good person, they can help the house person uncover many of their hidden talents or parts of themselves they may not have been previously aware.


13 comments:

  1. If Venus is conjunct the partners Asc but falls into their twelve house with like 2 or 3 degrees orb from the cusp.What does it mean?:)

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  2. Hi Tina,
    Thanks for stopping by! The Ascendant person would find the Venus person mysteriously beautiful . The Venus person will make the house person feel loved unconditionally. The Venus person can see a side of the house person that other's don't see. This is a very powerful psychic connection. The key is for Venus to be open about their feelings with the house person, and to make sure you are seeing reality and not just what you want.

    I am still updating my site which these aspect should be complete later in the week:)

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  3. Hey!
    Thank you for the reply!Actually,I am the one thankful for finding your blog,it shouldnt be the other way around ha ha
    So does this placement like give the venus person,which in this case is me,illusions?
    I also have my mars(15.36 degrees) on his asc(15.48 degrees)

    I can't wait to read your posts about those aspects because I have got plenty of misleading ones in this synastry :P

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  4. Hi Tina, sorry for the long delay.. I actually somehow didnt get the notification that you asked me another question:( Technology:( I'm sorry. At any rate: The 12th house although Neptune ruled is not merely about illusions or deceit, it's about our unconscious and that's not always negative either. When it comes to the 12th house because it's so tricky, you really need to look at the individual charts to see " what kind of person it is" if they are someone that has alot of indications of deception, or if there intention is not good. Then they can't have access to a part of you that you may be unaware of, if it is something good, and this is a good person, they can enable you in a positive form, and teach you many things that you wouldnt otherwise know. If however, the intention is poor and they are not a good person to begin with, they can use this information of your weakness's or blind spot, to hurt you. It is hard to see clearly here but there is so much more to this house. Venus can offer the 12th house person great insight into how to love, or short comings on their love nature, it's a deeply psychic connection but even more than that it's a unconscious connection that is often their even when you are apart. Again I'm sorry i didn't get your question and apologize for the delay!

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  5. Most of my best friends have Venus in Gemini on my 12th and 1st house. I'm a Gemini ascendant They could see and discover my secret potentials that others don't see. They known me inside out better than myself.=). It's true about this placement.

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  6. Could you please be so kind to tell me you think of these astrological aspects?
    My friend: Ascending Scorpio and Pluto in Libra in house 12
    Me: Pluto conjunct Venus in the 12th house of my friend, Moon conjunct Saturn in House 1, My venus and my moon conjunct her ascendant
    Thank you very much!!!

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    1. Hi Alice, Aspect intrepretations are too long to write in the comment section and because there is so much to take into consideration to give accurate interpretations, I am no longer doing so. I will give you a brief overall but there is much more to it! overall you would have a strong sexual attraction( Pluto Conjunct Venus, perhaps emotional reservation or blockage or a overall serious tone ( Saturn Conjunct Moon), Venus Conjunct Ascendant shows physical attraction among other things:)

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  7. hello ,

    my venus and sun taurus conjunct his jupiter in my 7th house and his venus falls in my 9th house cancer whats is the meaning . thanks a lot

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    1. There is a lot of positivity, hope and love in your relationship. You tend to be sweet with each other or at least try most of the time.

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  8. So if my VENUS is in his 12th HOUSE, indicates he might SECRETLY love me? And his Venus is in my 11th HOUSE, he feels he is being treated like a buddy? AM I GETTING IT RIGHT?

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  9. There is a lot more to it but those are one of the different possibilities Yes:)

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  10. I have a friend, who has venus in 8th house of mine. He used to said that i "black" =))) and i used to remind that with him.

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  11. An acquaintance has her Venus conjunct my Mars by less than 1 degree in Aries, in my 12th house. A few weeks ago she blab a secret I told her, which created a mess in my marriage. I trusted her and thought she was lending me an ear because she cared....boy was I wrong. Crazy thing is, I still like her. What gives?

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