Wednesday, August 28, 2013


The 7th house represents our opposite, a person that has many of the qualities that we admire and may  lack ourselves. These differences if appreciated rather than fought over, can help both people learn a great deal and become better and more rounded people. 
As always there are many factors to consider in each of the natal charts that will alter each interpretation for the most accurate analysis, please visit my reports page or schedule a phone consultation.

So here's the scoop with the 7th house. Yes, opposites attract, but they can repel over time if you both try to change each other or choose to fight rather than get along. The truth is you both have qualities and ways of doing things that can be beneficial to each of you. If you can work through your differences then you can do great things together and will be much stronger together. 

The 7th house is the house of equal partnership, and commitment both romantically and professionally and is known as the house of Marriage.

Each house has it's positive and negative, the negative part of any close relationship, is that when things don't work out they can turn bad, and why this house also holds our open enemies.  Open enemies are often people that we trusted or were once close with, and we have been hurt or let down. This is true for ex-friends, ex-lovers, and ex-business partners.

As always there are many factors to take into account for the most accurate interpretation.

If Your Sun is in your Partners 7th house

You and your Partner have qualities in which you both admire in another. You both have very different ways of doing things and qualities that one or the other lacks and may admire about the other. You make a great team and together you can accomplish a lot when cooperative.

This is a strongly supportive placement. You both will respect and even admire each other. If this is a love relationship then there will be a very strong attraction and the potential for Marriage if other aspects allow.

You will both feel more confident as a result of your relationship and will also enjoy socializing and networking together. This is an excellent position for both love or business partnership.

If your Moon is in your Partners 7th house

There is a sense of responsibility and sincere care for one another. The Moon person is very supportive of the house person, and this indicates a tremendous compatibility and comfort in your partnership. You both will relish sharing, working together or simply being together. 

The Moon person will be sensitive and intuitive to the house person's needs and the house person will feel supported and cared for by the Moon person.  This is a great position for a marriage or business partnership.

If Your Mercury is in your Partners 7th house

You are able to help your partner communicate openly about relationship matters.You stimulate each other by being in agreement to what it takes to have a long term commitment and relationship. Local traveling around town together brings you great pleasure. You will both enjoy communicating with each other about similar subjects and are probably a lot alike in terms of how you think. Your partner might look to you for solutions to business problems. Your partner is apt to respect your intellect and look to you for answers. You are two of a feather with your outlook in general.

If your Venus is in your Partners 7th house

With Venus in your Partners 7th house you make your partner feel good and attractive, you add a bit of a glamour to your partners life.  You will more than likely help assist in growing his or her network of people that are like the both of you. Your Partner is probably very attracted to you or at least see's you as charming and possessing all the finesse your partner desires. You appear charismatic, and add an artistic quality to your partnership that perhaps your partner lacks. There will be much luck together in business or marriage. People with often say that the two of you would make a great looking couple and you more than likely do. The Venus person brings out the admiration, attraction and desire of the house person to form some sort of partnership. This is an excellent aspect for a love relationship or business relationship.

If your Mars is in your Partners 7th house

You push your partner to be more aggressive in business dealings, or you yourself are can be quite pushy with your partner, or perhaps your partner is aggressive with you. You are fiery, enthusiastic, and invigorating which stimulates your partner. They may feel inspired  to form a partnership with you because they feel like they can accomplish a lot just being around you.You may feel the sense of urgency to partner up on some endeavor. Your partner will either find you invigorating or aggravating, depending on whether or not your partner is low energy or high. Either way your interaction with being dynamic and over the top stimulated.

If your Jupiter is in your Partners 7th house

You relationship together will be highly beneficial to the both of you. Others will see the two of you as optimistic, positive, ethical and in each other's best interest. You will add a sense of "great optimism" to the house person while you are together you feel expansive, optimistic, and that "together you can accomplish" everything you want in life, which is very true. 

The house person will benefit greatly by being in a partnership with you.You will receive the same benefits just through being in a partnership with the house person. 

Other's will often say "You two look good together"! If this goes both ways, and both of your Jupiter's are in each other's 7th house, You are likely a perfect match! 

Other's will put a lot of faith into each of you individually and your relationship. Ideal position for long term marriage. The expansiveness never seems to end and you are both able to expand and grow abundantly together.

If your Saturn in your Partners 7th house

Your relationship with your partner may consist of many burdens, trials, and tests. It may be difficult for you to form your relationship as things tend to pop up preventing it. 

If a relationship is formed there tends to be a increased responsibility on the house person for the Saturn person. The Saturn person may resist a commitment with the house person or vise verses out of fear of responsibility. 

On another note, the Saturn person can help the house person learn to be more responsible and conscientious. The Saturn person may require a lot from the house person in order to be in a relationship together and may even be a burden.

If there is a lot of love, and the house person is mature enough to handle responsibility, and both people are willing to work hard for the relationship, then a long, enduring, committed relationship is possible and likely Marriage.

Uranus in your Partners 7th house

The Uranus person may just fall into the house person's lap or vice versa. There was likely an electric and immediate attraction to one another. This position is invigorating stimulating and exciting but suited for couples that are very open-minded and progressive in matters of the heart. 

The Uranus person will stimulate, provoke and even shock the house person which can ignite strong passions. 

Independence, friendship, twists, turns, ups and downs, will keep you both enthralled in each other. 

This can also indicate that your partner instills a greater desire for freedom in you. You both make really good friends and lovers. 

However, it's also possible that the Uranus person will require a lot of freedom in the relationship, or may be too unpredictable. 

Neptune in your Partners 7th house

This can be a highly romantic relationship in which you both feel like your the characters in one of the most romantic love novels. You can easily get swept away. You both may tend to idealize each other, but there is nothing wrong with that! After-all idealization is the stuff that soul mates and dream lovers are made of. 

Just be sure to be honest with each other, and to not brush aside real issues or real problems only to have them come slap you in the face at a later date, when the Neptune fog clears away.

You are both likely to be less judgmental and more accepting of each others faults for neither one of you have any. 

You tend to accept one another as is, and may gloss over potential issues for the sake of keeping things sweet. The danger lies if one or both of your are deceptive one or both are not likely to notice. Keep both eyes open and be sure to communicate and not be afraid to ask real questions.

Pluto in your Partners 7th house

You either love or want to run from this person. If there is mutual attraction than this can be one very sexy partnership but not without it's fair share of challenges but this all depends on how flexible the Pluto person is and if the house person prefers a more dominant and even bossy personality.

If the Pluto person is too forceful, bossy or manipulative with the house person then things might take a sharp left. 

However, if the Pluto person is mature, and not into power trips, domination and  game-play, and allows the house person to have their own personality and likes and dislikes then the house person is likely to find the Pluto person quite mysterious, sexy and powerful. 

The house person may appreciate the Pluto's way in fearlessly going after what they want. The Pluto person may become obsessed with the house person again this depends on how mature the individual is and whether or not they have this tendency in their natal chart.

If a relationship is formed it will likely be quite powerful and will have the ability to transform the house person in some way. The Pluto person may change the house person's perspective on relationships and they may experience rebirths of their relationship through intense experience and possible drama. If used positively this placement can add a lot of passion, and the Pluto person can help the house person become more assertive in their desires.

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    1. Hi! The South Node is past behaviors, past experience, or things that we are very comfortable with because there is past knowledge in the area the South Node is placed, along with the sign and aspects made to it. We carry a sort of soul imprint and carry those things over into this life because its what we know. So without looking at the whole chart(s) because all things need to be taken into consideration to truly understand what it would indicate. I would say there might be a past life connection with this person, perhaps even marriage or it could have simply been a partner (as in business) or close friend.

      There is a level of comfort with others South Nodes that connect with us, this is believed to be because we knew them, that they were somehow a part of our past life. Or if it was a bad experience, it can also feel eerie and is usually Karmic.

      If positive, The person’s experience of their past will somehow be directly tied to you and your relationship, but will not challenge you or push you forward which is not bad in itself if you are just looking for comfort. We are here to grow and challenge ourselves South Node connections are a been there done that, so to speak.

    2. Edit: Hi! Unfortunately, These aspects in themselves are not enough to depict whether or not you are soul-mates. That depends on quite a few things. Many different factors need to be smooth as well, and also it depends, on "What you both consider" a soul-mate.

      To some they want a best friend,( planets in the 11th) others want intensity( Pluto connections), and some find security and stability paramount( Saturn). Also depends on what you are looking for at this stage of your life, To Some South Node connections feel restraining, suppressing or over a period of time, they lose there fizz, become too comfortable and begin to feel stagnant. However for others ( because of other aspects as well in their favor), find the level of comfort necessary and magical.So as always the whole chart needs to be taken into consideration( especially each persons natal chart)( to see more about how aspects are likely to play out).

      Karmic relationships can be both good or bad as well as have a sense of heaviness even drama,. Karmic Relationships are just that and ls dependent on each others Karma, and to each other.

      Astrology is complex, there are many different ways the aspects can play out, and be interpreted and why aspect by aspect is rarely accurate, in itself, it simply shows possibilities but each person will respond to there aspects differently based a whole bunch of other factors.

      The North Node offers us growth and the South Node, feeds our comfort, and simpleness but on the negative suppressesor holds us back.

      It all depends on where one is in their life, for someone who has been a" trail blazer" and put career ahead of love, they could find themselves appreciating the simpleness of the South Node contacts, (however not all South Node contacts are comfortable, depending on the Karma). Someone whom has not lived out there true potential and perhaps settled or simply didn't do the things they wanted in their life, can then find the North Node Connections, highly desireable to help push them forward and offer them challenge as a example.

      The nodes are paths we can take one of familarity, comfort or one of challenge and growth and neither one in themselves point to Soul Mates or not. But good Nodal Contacts along with other romantic or fluent aspects can tell us more., Nonetheless, both North and South Nodes have powerful pulls.

      However, Astrology aside...How this person makes you feel and treats you is paramount:)

  2. Hi my crushes sun, moon, mars, Jupiter, and pluto is in my 7th house how would this go...
    at theoment I am obsessed with him..

    1. Hi Hazel, there is a lot more to it, but it makes sense you would be obsessed with him. It's probably his Pluto that has you obsessed Pluto does that. It is also true that he appears to be your ultimate other, typically the house person is obsessed with the planet person but the planet person has a lot to bring to the house person. Personally Jupiter in your 7th is a fabulous feel good position! I can't say much more without seeing all the charts, there is a lot involved in attraction and synastry to see if there are any blockers or what he has going on in his chart, but those are mighty nice placements:)

  3. Hi,

    Sun is in my 7th house and his 7th house is empty.
    Ketu and mercury are in my 8th house and Sun and Mercury are in his 8th house.
    We are in love for past 8 yrs. From my chart, they have predicted i will lead widow life. Can we get married?

    1. Hi Dear! without looking at both your charts and all the aspects it's really impossible to answer because there are many aspects and placements to consider in both your natal charts the synastry and the composite chart to see the whole picture. But I can tell you this, if you both love each other enough, free will trumps Astrology, and you will get married if it's what you both really want:)

  4. Wow! This seems to bode well. My Sun, Uranus, Pluto, Mercury and MC are all in his 7th house AND his Sun and Moon are both in my 7th house. Plus my true north is conjunct his Sun - if that means anything.

    1. Interesting, because I looked at my most recent ex of 9 years and my Jupiter was in his 7th house AND his Vertex, Venus, Saturn, and Mercury were in my 7th house. Of course, like you said it really depends on the rest of both charts because boy oh boy does your description of his Saturn being in my 7th override everything good that could have been and describes that relationship to a T.
      I also see that I was more of the house person in that case, and in this current relationship it seems he is a little more of the house person although his SUN and MOON are in my 7th house. So maybe this one is a little better for me. I sure hope so. lol

    2. Awe. Yes,.Saturn can be quite a doozy, The 7th house is the house of Marriage but also our open enemies, but really because it's about contracts and getting legal, if things go wrong such as a bad partnership or bad divorce these people can turn into our enemy...

      It's a sensitive house, if things don't work out in this house, watch out;)

      However, I see it as a equal partnership house where both parties see the benefit of being together and they each have something the other feels they desire or need. Opposites attract and then repel, or learn from one another.

      The Moon in the 7th is very good, its emotional and committed and will provide you emotional comfort and security in the partnership:) and Yes, all things need to be considered, and why writing about aspects is very difficult, because each aspect or placement can be severely altered in interpretation by other aspects, particulary in the individual natal charts, but we try as Astrologers to give a general idea," should all other aspects allow"

  5. :) Thank you Zahara! I know aspects are just that - one aspect at a time independent of all other aspects and the charts as a whole, but you have done a remarkable job. Thank you. Also, I'm older and wiser [hopefully] and I wouldn't have appreciated this new person if I hadn't gone through the relationship with my ex who is a sweetheart but just wasn't up for emotional commitment with me at least. It was very turbulent! And I didn't let go when I should have, but I finally let him go emotionally so that I could move on, and this new guy "fell into my lap" and vice versa [my Uranus in his 7th house]. Luckily my ex and I did not end up as enemies.
    Thank you again for your response and your writing here. I love your site and your insights.

  6. What a difference being experienced in life makes eh? Jeez if only we could have known before all the unnecessary nonsense. But, you know what.?..We wouldn't have listened anyway! uggh..

    I completely understand what your saying, being conscious, aware or more mature, what a difference it makes!, Our relationships get much better..." almost magically" Awareness=Magic? ( wink) Not quite, We simply see things from a wiser perception and therefore make better choices and end up in better relationships as a result! Thank you so much for sharing! Wishing you, True Love***

  7. Hi zahara my partner and me both are scorpio ascendant
    she got mars rahu and moon in ascendant where i have rahu only
    on contrary in seventh house i got VEnus ketu and it's also aspected by jupiter
    How this synastry will work may i know

    1. Hi I don't understand your question. I'm also sorry but I am no longer answering aspect by aspect synastry or relationship questions any longer because it requires analysis. There are to many variables to answer accurately because astrology is complex and many factors can alter interpretations and this is why aspect by aspect are not accurate unless there are no other aspects being made to the aspect.

      In order to interpret your relationship dynamics the whole chart(S) need to be analyzed to explain the nature of any relationship and in order for me to do so you need to book a reading for that.

      I'm sorry I don't have the time to do so.

      If the question is simple like " how would my mars in my partners 7th house affect my partner I can answer such a question if I have not already written about it because it's basic energy. Multi aspects, placements etc require analysis.

      Thank you for your understanding:)