When we are desperate for love, it shows and it does not work in our favor. First we need to love ourselves first, as cliche as it sounds, if you don't love yourself don't expect anyone else too. When we are desperate, we operate from a very low level, and we are willing to accept the wrong people, and in worst case even try desperately to hold on to them, when they are not right for us. This is why relationships are so difficult, we are essentially trying to make it work, with people that don't have what we need or are unable to give it to us in the first place.
All this for the sake of having a relationship or fear of being alone with ourselves. So first, learn to love yourself, and believe that you deserve the right person just for you. It begins without accepting less. We only have the things or people in our lives that which we accept.
There is a "time for everything" and there is a plan for our life and the Universe has our best interest at heart. It is our Free-Will that somehow seems to screw things up.
For those of you that are new or unfamiliar with Astrology and how it works you will be surprised to know that in it, we can find answers to all our life problems and relationship issues, but even more.
There is something called a natal chart, and it is a snapshot of the placement of the planets at the time of our birth, each person has their own unique placements which can explain pretty much anything you want to know. Things such as what hang ups we might have, that prevent us from finding and keeping love, to our karmic issues, all the way down to the timing of events and when we are most likely to find a person that is good for us.
We can even see when problems are likely to come forward and for those of you that are already in a relationship/Marriage, what your purpose together might be along with what needs to be done to save it, when experiencing difficulties, if worth it.
There are certain predisposed personality characteristics that we inherited from our early childhood that we may not be conscious of that could be sabotaging us from finding and keeping love, and knowing what these are is the first step, and then doing something about them to avoid this pitfalls and open ourselves up to love. When we make the conscious effort to understand ourselves or as **** says " make the unconscious, conscious" we then can take control of our lives.
If you are having trouble finding love or experiencing a series of hopeless relationship situations, it would serve you greatly to Trust the Universe, and get an Astrological Reading.
It's not just the entertainment section of the newspaper horoscope that says, "Today is your lucky day for love" it is much more complicated and very few people truly understand real depth Astrology is able to cover.
It's important to understand, an Astrologer is not a psychic. It does not just come to them out of the air but is rather something that needs years of study to be able to accurately interpret a natal chart, and the many other charts available.
Many Astrology sites include Psychics together because it's considered New Age or they are Metaphysical outlet's which all can be combined together.
Astrology is the" Art of Astronomy" a study of the planets and the many aspects in which they make in any given chart.
This takes someone that is trained in the study of planets and their esoteric meanings, and it is not based on a feeling or premonitions but rather a proven formula that plays out differently for each person.
It can take hours or days to study one's chart and give a proper analysis, it's rather complex. Many people study Astrology for many years before they even begin to understand it.
The Ancients built complex machines and mechanisms to track the planets and we need to understand that this was taken very seriously that some of them still can be replicated today.
Astrology shows us that there is timing to everything just as the bible proposes in Ecclesiastes 3.
A Time for Everything
For everything, there is a season, and a time for every matter under heaven:
2 a time to be born, and a time to die;
a time to plant, and a time to pluck up what is planted;
3 a time to kill, and a time to heal;
a time to break down, and a time to build up;
4 a time to weep, and a time to laugh;
a time to mourn, and a time to dance;
5 a time to cast away stones, and a time to gather stones together;
a time to embrace, and a time to refrain from embracing;
6 a time to seek, and a time to lose;
a time to keep, and a time to cast away;
7 a time to tear, and a time to sew;
a time to keep silence, and a time to speak;
8 a time to love, and a time to hate;
a time for war, and a time for peace.
The timing of finding love is often associated with the Planet transits, such as Venus & Jupiter, however, all of the planets play their role.
You can even find out when your relationship will be tested and prepare so that you can take the proper action to rectify, protect or simply let go of a relationship that is not serving your higher purpose. Astrology is a gift from God, for us to understand and utilize timing for our benefit.
So if you are looking for love or experiencing relationship drama or problems, Astrology is truly the answer that you need. It can not only help you find love and keep it, but it can also help you understand what's going on in your current relationship along with the answers on what needs to be done.
Of course relationships are a very small part of what Astrology can answer and help, it can help with any area of your life, such as finding a new job, what's going on at the current one, what your life purpose might be, along with why you are feeling the way that you are, and how long it may last.
It shows us our highs and our lows and gives us answers to many complex and hidden questions that really nothing else has really been able to. So when it comes to finding love, keeping love or the timing of events, it's time we " Trust the Universe".