SYNASTRY: VENUS SQUARE OR OPPOSITE MARS

This is another one of those aspects that can really go either way, and it really depends on the maturity of the two people involved. It is much easier for a slightly more experienced or mature couple to handle this aspect because they will lack the childish competitiveness this position can create. 

Similarly to Mars in hard aspect to Pluto this position generates a lot of sexual attraction at first, and both people are generally enthralled with each other. From what I have seen this aspect can simply be that both parties are not on the proper wavelength in terms of  Mars (male) Venus (female roles or behaviors. One or both people might be too stubborn, or aggressive when it comes to having their way.

It also points to differences in expression.The way that each of them gives affection or love is different from what each other desires or expects. 

It can also be that they push each other's hot buttons or rub each other the wrong way. Sometimes Mars can be too bossy, dominating and even competitive with Venus. Venus can be too demanding, expecting or simply not willing to give in when needed. It really depends on what signs are involved, but for instance Capricorn is cool, serious and does not allow himself to get carried away emotionally, Capricorn is in Control. The opposite sign is Cancer, which is sensitive and nurturing but also can be emotionally needy. In this case, the Mars Capricorn will show his love and affection in ways that the Cancer Venus may not see as loving and might feel unloved or uncared for, because Capricorns way of showing affection is not how Cancer wants. The Mars, on the other hand, can find the Cancer person too needy or overly sensitive. 

The Cancer Venus can be too clingy for the Capricorn Mars. There can be arguments and problems that arise with regards to how one gives love and what the other needs. 

Of course opposites attract, and in some cases work better, this is not always the case however. But with the opposition they have a better opportunity to find balance and usually each does have qualities that the other admires and even needs. 

The square can be more problematic or aggitating because the two are usually very different and often quite stubborn in their ways. Each have different ways of going about getting and giving love and affection. 

Both people need different things to feel loved. Being aware of this and sensitive to the fact that the two of you are simply different and learning to give each other what it is they need will let the best part of the aspect play out and that is hot chemistry. 

The possible negative side if not mature can cause a great deal of friction that although causes sexual attraction, but eventually burns out and leads to animosity. 

 If you handle this position with care and a mature perspective, as well as true knowledge of what it is your partner really needs and wants, and are willing to give it to them the way they like it, then the two of you will have much to learn from one another as well. Don't get me wrong, there is "Nothing wrong" with a little "drama" every so often, but watch out for the need to pick and poke at each other, nothing kills a romantic possibility more, and aggravating each other to the point that you want to fight all the time. Keep it sweet, and your sex life will likely be quite active thought your entire relationship.