Neptune Moon aspects in synastry creates a strongly psychic, intuitive and even mystical bond. You are both very sensitive to each other and may prefer to spend much of your time alone and away from it all. There is a great deal of compassion, understanding taking place.
You are swept away in a what feels like a underwater fantasy. Neptune rules feelings of elation, or euphoria and tends to want to keep things dream like. The problem occurs when one or both of you choose to be dishonest in order to keep things in this state.
We all have problems and with Neptune we tend to gloss over them, cover them up or avoid them in order to keep the dream alive. This aspect works best when it is going both ways, when both people have Neptune Square the others Moon. However, it does not indicate that you are in the safe zone, one or both of you can end up not telling the whole truth. This of course does not need to be so, and would be more likely if one or the other has hard Neptune aspects in their natal chart.
This aspect although it creates a highly romantic and sensitive connection there is also a strong desire to protect it's perfection and why dishonesty is possible. It is rarely malicious but if one person is unable to fulfill there end of the relationship the truth of the reason might be difficult to truly figure out.
Just keep in mind, that Neptune likes to keep everything flowing beautifully in a highly elated dream world, and if one of the parties has Neptune in hard aspect to any of there personal planets deception is very possible. We all want to be seen is good light, but for Neptune this is a necessity. Neptune strives for perfection and guess what none of us our perfect, we all have problems and imperfections but for Neptune these are painful to disclose. Avoidance of the real problems are likely with this combination and over time, when reality set's in it can be painful.
Neptune glosses over problems, pains or sorrows, troubles and often evades reality or paints a picture quite differently than it is it is very important that the both of you are very honest with each other, even if it bursts the bubble of perfection.
In some cases, one or the other might be hiding something it does not need to be sinister it could simply be that they have made things in their life out to be better than they actually are. When this happens as the relationship evolves it becomes harder and harder to keep this untruth hidden and instead of facing the truth they choose to leave the relationship for fear of being found out.
If both people are honest with one another, and don't evade reality and don't fear the fact that they may not be perfect then the relationship can provide the two of you with a highly spiritual and psychic connection. However, if dishonesty takes place, one or both you may end up feeling quite confused about what happened to the once out of this world bond the two of you had.
This aspect although it creates a highly romantic and sensitive connection there is also a strong desire to protect it's perfection and why dishonesty is possible. It is rarely malicious but if one person is unable to fulfill there end of the relationship the truth of the reason might be difficult to truly figure out.
Just keep in mind, that Neptune likes to keep everything flowing beautifully in a highly elated dream world, and if one of the parties has Neptune in hard aspect to any of there personal planets deception is very possible. We all want to be seen is good light, but for Neptune this is a necessity. Neptune strives for perfection and guess what none of us our perfect, we all have problems and imperfections but for Neptune these are painful to disclose. Avoidance of the real problems are likely with this combination and over time, when reality set's in it can be painful.
Neptune glosses over problems, pains or sorrows, troubles and often evades reality or paints a picture quite differently than it is it is very important that the both of you are very honest with each other, even if it bursts the bubble of perfection.
In some cases, one or the other might be hiding something it does not need to be sinister it could simply be that they have made things in their life out to be better than they actually are. When this happens as the relationship evolves it becomes harder and harder to keep this untruth hidden and instead of facing the truth they choose to leave the relationship for fear of being found out.
If both people are honest with one another, and don't evade reality and don't fear the fact that they may not be perfect then the relationship can provide the two of you with a highly spiritual and psychic connection. However, if dishonesty takes place, one or both you may end up feeling quite confused about what happened to the once out of this world bond the two of you had.
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I have Moon Square Neptune at a exact degree and it's what they call a double whammy. Does this mean that we are both deceiving each other? I can agree with all that you have said here, especially about something feeling wrong! I am taking the " Leap of faith" on him, because the romantic interaction between us is out of this world! Thanks for the post! right on point!
ReplyDeleteNo it does not mean you are both decieving each other, it does mean that you will both feel responsible for each other. This can put stress on the relationship if you are not whole individuals because Neptune often requires a sacrifice. Sometimes this fear takes over and out of fear of not living up to the others expectations, they aren't completely honest because they don't want to let each other down. Neptune is compassion and selfless love, unconditional and Neptune relationships often require some form of sacrifice. Usually some type of victim savior relationship, but if both people are whole it can be the most romantic relationship you ever experienced:)
ReplyDeleteI have Moon conjunct neptune as a double whammy with someone and we each also have it natally. Would both of us having it natally make it more positive?
ReplyDeleteHi Curious:) Yes! The double whammy is the preferred Moon Neptune hard Aspect to have with someone. The reason is because you both will see each other in a elevated fashion, rather than one and not the other. Moon Neptune causes a romantic dreamy effect and can also cause you to baby each other. If this is going both ways the feeling can be amazing. The problem with it one way, is that one person ends up doing more for the other or it's not balanced in some way or the paranoia becomes difficult to handle and may cause problems. Potentially not seeing them for who they are, therefore deception or lies are possible, not guaranteed. This is simply because we become much more accepting make excuses for them not passing judgment on any of their bad behaviors. Neptune is compassionate and likes to (save) or help someone. If you both have it natally, then you're both "use to this energy" you both would then not get as confused as some people may with no Neptune energy. I love Neptune in synastry, it's really just a matter of using wisdom, asking questions and gaining clarity in all situations, but also having faith and trusting. Neptune has no boundaries no judgments and much forgiveness. This is why, you need to set these boundaries up yourselves and make sure that neither one of you is giving more than you can to the relationship and that both your expectations are realistic. I am personally involved in a two year Neptune Square Moon double whammy, and I have never had it so good! It feels very "soul-mate for both of us. I have had all kinds of strange feelings of mistrust, and he always proved me to be wrong. Now at two years, when I begin to feel something is wrong, I laugh at myself. Because he has proved above and beyond that he is to be trusted. This is a very intuitive and Psychic bond but because of this extra sensitivity it can at times produce very confusing feelings and irrational fears. Keep your eyes above water and don't make excuses for unacceptable behavior and this could be one of the most romantic interactions you have experienced. Ofcourse there are many other aspects to a chart that can demise the wonderful Neptune Moon or enhance it. Assuming you have other stabilizing factors, and other good aspects, you should keep the romance alive for a very long time:)
ReplyDeleteThanks dear,
DeleteI just met a man and we have this square. I always think its something wrong but its not. He loves me and I love him.
I hope we do well.
How does the trine differ from the hard aspects?
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