NATAL VENUS ASPECTS: OPPOSITION

Venus opposition Moon 

You often experience conflict in relationships even though you try very hard to please others. Most often other's will doubt your sincerity because the conflict lies between giving to others and giving to yourself. You can come across materialistic people, and in this case it may be your mother who has such exquisite taste. You are very sensitive to others approval, when you expect too much from those you are close to, you are often disappointed. As a substitute for emotional satisfaction, you are somewhat self-indulgent. You display a weakness for comforts and luxuries. Your money conditions can cause problems if not carefully controlled. Sexual excesses can be a product of your feelings of being unloved.

Venus opposition Mars 

The opposition between Venus and Mars suggests that your emotional nature must be controlled if you expect to have a lasting romantic relationship. There is a great deal of conflict between yourself and your partners. You might have large swings going from loving to being irritated and angry. Often this aspect shows disloyalty and a lack of faithfulness in the partner but not always. It's very important for you to learn cooperation and compromise. It is also essential for you to select a partner with whom you have many interests in common. You must guard against a tendency to be drawn to individuals with whom the only common ground is physical.

Venus opposition Jupiter 

You may take too much for granted and expect all great things at all times. This aspect may point to people who were spoiled or had parents that liked to promise a lot of over did things. The person might be a big talker but rarely follows through. The person with this aspect might be vain, and self endulgent. There may be a abundance of love affairs in your wake. You can be so optimistic and friendly when everything is going well, but then become touchy and moody when something is wrong. 

Jupiter is the planet of excess. Sometimes marital problems of the sort caused by differences in religious beliefs or deep-rooted philosophical differences can occur in the marriage. 

Venus opposition Saturn 

The opposition between Venus and Saturn shows emotional frustrations., this is a rather somber and perhaps even depressing aspect as the harshness of Saturn weighs heavily on all things. Venus is about harmonious relationships and equal give and take which brings happiness and harmony in relationships. You may look at your accomplishments with continuous dissatisfaction, underestimating your self-worth. You may not have received the encouragement that you needed when you were younger, and you tend to shy away from competition because of a resulting lack of confidence. You will have to learn to make concessions with others to maintain normal relations. You would benefit from being more aggressive, speaking your true feelings and avoiding games of jealousy, or testing your partners for these attempts often fail and sabotage yourself. You don't want to put in the effort it takes to build a solid love relationship and then wonder why love is so difficult. Jealousy games, or acting as if you don't care, will only create problems in your relationships you need to be more direct with your feelings and not fear them for they are going to get you what you want.

Venus opposition Uranus 

This aspect can cause you to be somewhat erradic and unpredictable in matters of love and money. You may fluctuate with extremes in wanting to be close and wanting to be free to do as you please. Keep in mind that a rebel attitude makes prolonged associations difficult, and sudden breaks or on and off again relationships are likely.You need all types of exotic and thrilling experiences and have little concern for potential consequences. You depend on your bright and witty charm to carry you through to success in your job. Dealing with people may be your forte, yet sometimes you may alienate your closest friends. It would benefit you to realize that a certain amount of consistency and follow through make for long lasting relationships of all types. 



Venus opposition Neptune 

The opposition between Venus and Neptune shows emotions and affections are strongly influenced by unconscious forces. This aspect blurs aesthetic, social, romantic and sexual perceptions. 

In matters of marriage, friendships, and artistic creativity, your unconscious desires generate wishful thinking and a distorted perception of reality. 

Social relationships are apt to be somewhat undermined. There is a tendency toward self-indulgence or avoidance with this aspect, and you can be especially susceptible to drugs and alcohol. There can be much confusion in sexual matters. Emotionalism and self-delusion may cloud your judgment and would be important to take note of.


Venus opposition Pluto 

The opposition between Venus and Pluto predisposes you to becoming involved in highly emotional and sexual relationships. You have all or nothing attitude, and are likely highly demanding. Problems are encountered because of your resistance to show love out of fear of being unloved. You may sabotage your relationships out of fear. You have a very passionate nature but expect too much out of your partners and are not flexible. You may frequently attract the wrong kind of partners. Marriage problems may also be  because of your dictatorial attitude toward your partner or vice versa. Attempts to remake or remold your partner rather than compromising causes constant friction. In your business relationships, you face extreme challenges and competition.