Venus In Scorpio: How deep is your love?

Venus in Scorpio exudes a mysterious and powerful intensity that seems to attract their lovers to them like a moth to a flame. There's a smoldering look in their eyes, that's deeply penetrating. You can sense what feels like repressed passion, behind a controlled observant and yet seemingly seductive and probing exterior. They probe not only with their eyes but with a feeling vibratory energy. They watch your every move and manner and that can make one feel naked or exposed. They are magnetic, smoldering, luring and can leave those come in contact feeling almost hypnotized and spellbound. They are sexy and have a way of drawing out of others their very own hidden or suppressed desire nature. You feel mysteriously drawn yet overwhelmed. 

If they are interested in you they will give you a smoldering look, if you make eye contact you will see what appears to be a small tiny red flame deep within their eyes almost holding you in a spell. You will force yourself to turn away but you will want to look back. They draw out our carnal and lustful desire nature. They are, however, searching for something extraordinaire, nothing plain and ordinary will do. They need intensity, they need passion they won't settle for a meaningless superficial interaction, they want more. They need to possess and be possessed.

Venus in Scorpio is magnetic, luring and seductive even if you're straight-laced you feel your kundalini activate or bad girl/boy urging to be let out. For some this intensity can bring out fears, or make them uncomfortable, it's not for everyone. They are deep, and they are intense. Their survival depends on these feelings because then they then know they are alive, they need to feel alive. They know things, they have seen, and they feel deeply, maybe too deeply. These feelings are intense, overwhelming and drives the body to exhaustion, yet it's alive.

They fear death, "the death of their feelings or passions". They crave, they want, they desire. They need, they need to need. Nothing is alive without feeling. Yet sometimes these feelings suffocate them and sometimes drive them to madness, but they like it they feel alive. It's the madness that is intriguing. It's understandable it makes sense, it's ok, it's not somber or stale, it's full of fire it's hot. It pushes blood through the body, and straight to the heart where it pumps out passion which they feed on. Even if it drives them to exhaustion they need it. They grew tired of feeling afraid, but it's better than not feeling they need the rush, the rush of desire. They need desire and to be desired. The stagnant, stale and mundane is death itself. And to not know the truth, or what lies deep within is unacceptable. The thirst for the truth is enthralling, they are seeking, searching and obsessing for truth.

They have developed a hyper-awareness of others motives and have penetrating insights because they don't look at things as they appear but rather they feel vibrations and they look into the soul through the eyes. They pay attention to every detail, they are coy and yet cautious. Venus in Scorpio needs a lover that can handle their intensity and one that can devote themselves mind, body, and soul. One that is strong enough, daring enough, and willing to expose themselves yet still remains a bit of an enigma or keep some mystery for them to constantly search out. 

Venus in Scorpio's like black and red, or darker colors and prefer leather and lace, and even games of power and domination, seduction and even ownership, they need to possess. They want you wanting, needing and craving them. There is a deep inner need for control in there love lives, they are forever jealous they need to be your one and only, they don't take well competition or games of jealousy, they can have a vicious sting. They are wise with a deep reservoir of feelings that seem to create this magnetic and intense field around them. They possess this air of mystery and intrigue. It's all in the eyes, they have a way about them that can mesmerize or entrance their lovers.

Sexually, they possess a magnitude of passion that usually one has not yet seen, (unless they have experienced Scorpio before). This can be very attractive to those that look for intense all or nothing attractions. They are amazing lovers, which they should be if they are going to want to consume their lovers or capture their mind, body, and soul. 

They can be subtle or direct in their intentions. But they usually will captivate your attention. Although they usually prefer to lure you to them. The need for sex and intimacy is generally strong, and it is usually after the sex that the tests, and psychoanalysis begin. Fear of betrayal makes them seek out partners that are safe and secure in some way, but they often crave to challenge themselves. They usually prefer strong, men/women with strong willpower, and conviction but aren't a prude or uptight or afraid to express their feelings. However, to conquer is something they enjoy as well. 

Scorpio is a strong sign, they have seen many tragedies and the darker sides of the human existence. They are weary and untrusting of others but because they have such strong intuitive gifts they can read whether or not you are one to invest their energy or not. They lose interest in the weak, and easy types. Scorpio is a powerful sign because of it's all or nothing attitude and they also like a good challenge, especially men with this placement. 


Women maybe the lighter version of above but can be the same. For the most part, but they more want a partner that will provide them with security, intensity, and passion. Most Venus in Scorpios are possessive and jealous but they may not show it. Venus in Scorpios are pros, at hiding their true feelings, to protect or preserve their egos, they are more about getting you to lose your mind over them. They usually like to be pursued but only if they are into you. They can pursue themselves but can cool down for the testing phase. 

In the lower vibration of this energy, or negatively they may test their partners will, by using underhanded tactics, or coercing them, they may want to use their power to manipulate, control or simply to see what they can get away with. They may test your resolve and personal will.

Scorpios ruling planet is Pluto and is not at all about superficiality, they are the investigators of the zodiac they need to know what lies beneath the surface of appearances, they need to know their lovers will go the distance. Once they find one they are all-consuming and can be complicated. However, when you have passed the tests, and they love you, they are loyal, protective, and you are ALL theirs.

Of course, as always other aspects and placements can alter the interpretation.